Have you ever had one of those days, weeks, months, or years <insert Friends' theme song> where you just want to sit down and have a pity party? Yeah, me, too. And, in jest (mostly) I posted about it this week. After taking multiple, yet very minor hits I came home to find my Christmas lights had just fallen off of these house. Hello? Are you reading this? They just FELL. OFF. OF. THE. HOUSE. As I pulled into the driveway and made sense of my view, my thought was something akin to "oh, you've got to be kidding me - what else???". Haven't I felt like this before and survived? Yes. But it still felt fresh, new, and overwhelming. And then, a little comical. So, what did I do? I posted it online. Because that's what we do. Or, that's what I do. The purpose? Well, partly to entertain - I mean it IS funny. Partly to let my friends know, hey, we're all just trying to hold it together. And partly, to commiserate with my peers. And what did I receive? Some people laughed with me. I needed it. Some people showed pity. I wanted it. Some people showed me the beauty. I needed it. Some people showed me the bright side. I needed it. Some people offered me tips. I'll take them! But, some people... some people didn't say a single thing. But, I know what they did. Some people prayed for me. Ya'll - I don't know who. Or how many. But this hard week now feels good. Not just good. Peaceful. Settled. I feel content. And thankful. Like I have a new strength that did not come from me. Thank you, Jesus. And thank you to my prayerful friends.
In my classroom this morning I had an opportunity to enjoy my students before school. Just feeling the warmth of our classroom community and their love. This afternoon as my eldest son Aiden came home from home from school and immediately drug out the shop vac to clean my car as a gift of service in love, I felt treasured. This evening working at the school with my youngest son Jackson to prepare for tomorrow's party, I felt connected, not alone.
I was disturbed from my sleep to share this with you. I didn't want to. I wanted to stay in bed. I wanted to keep listening to James Earl Jones read the New Testament and lull me back to sleep. (Side Note: If you are like me, and sometimes wake up and have trouble going back to sleep, download this from Audible. You're welcome.) The collection of words that came to mind was the quote "The Holy Spirit of grace desires to disturb your sleep. Blessed are you if you awaken" by Lars Linderst. I think He must wake me up in the middle of the night when the world is quiet because He knows I'm a slow processor and I need my time. I mean, God was making accommodations for us long before ARDs and 504s, right? I needed to quietly process this change in my week to realize that something changed, and ya'll... it wasn't me. As I slowly put it together while James Earl was still going in the background, the scripture that came to mind was For my yoke is easy and my burden is light, Matthew 11:30. What is funny about this, and annoying, is that when I am in the middle of a storm, instead of praying, I try and bear down and work through my troubles on my own. Usually complaining all the way. Because that's what you do, right? You work through it on your own, solve your problem and move on. No. No, that's not what you should do. Even if it's what is normal for you. Or comfortable. Familiar and known. There's a better way. Do not be like me and fail to use the power that is right beside you. A word away. Don't use an unsharpened axe to chop down the tree in front of you when the powerful chainsaw is RIGHT there. Jesus never meant our life to be as tough as we make and His word says so. His burden is light. So, to my friends who prayed for me when I was too blind, ignorant, and unwilling to do so? Thank you. Thank you for giving my mind and body rest by calling out to God on my behalf to make my yoke easy.